Step 9: Meet to Conciliate

 “No, please!” said Jacob. 'If I have found favor in your eyes, accept this gift from me. For to see your face is like seeing the face of God, now that you have received me favorably."  Genesis 33:10

Explanation:  Meet together with your brother and the appointed conciliators to discuss your conflict.  Conciliators facilitate not dictate a resolution. Pick a safe, comfortable place, free of distraction.  Listen carefully to each other.  Seek guidance in the Bible.  Pray that you may see your brother as you see God.  Forgive each other as God forgave you.  Be reconciled as God has reconciled with you because of Jesus Christ.  Write down your agreement.

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